Ok so Jamesen is fast asleep in his crib as I'm writing this.... Melissa and I have been putting this off for soooo long now because well.... I guess I just didn't think he could do it!
In the beginning I just couldn't put him down.. for real the first 6 weeks Jamesen was attached to me. Then he really did sleep in his co-sleeper for awhile.
THEN....
We just had to get some sleep. Jamesen was not the happiest baby in the middle of the night... we ended up ABUSING the swing... not on purpose but it was the only way he would sleep.... I felt horrible but really we had to get some sleep. Well as most of you know Jamesen is not a petite child. Just at 6 months he was TOO BIG for the swing... SHIT!
So I took him upstairs one day and laid him in my bed with me and patted him, hummed to him and hugged him to sleep... I was so happy at that point that I was able to get him to sleep without the swing that I wasn't really worried about it.
Fast forward another 6 months.... Now he's 28 pounds... And we aren't the smallest chicks... so all night long one of us was balancing on the edge of the bed and the other acting as a punching bag/kicking bag. Last wednesday I had it! I had already read the book: The sleep easy solution... and was psyched to start the sleep training.
Last night was the first night Jamesen was to go in his crib. We got a late start because we had a family party but we wanted to start anyway.... enough with the excuses! He went in at 9:20 and stayed in the crib until 8:30 this morning. He cried for about 10 minutes (I balled my eyes out) and went to sleep! WOW is all I have to say. He did cry out about 3 times during the night but by the time I got to his door he was settling down and fell back asleep. I just couldn't believe it!
The nap today didn't go AS well... He did fall asleep after exactly 8 minutes. He "cried out" on and off after the first 45 minutes for the rest of the time he was in his crib but not enough for me to go and rescue him! He was in his room for 2 and a half hours but didn't get a lot of sleep... So when I went to get him he was tired...
I wore him out today... he walked up and down the block with Brianna and her friend Brenna, jumped on the trampoline, ran around the house in a circle (I opened the gates on either side of the playroom), and played with Nathan (my cousin's 5 month old that I watch on Monday's and Tuesday's).
Melissa was late coming home today... she had to stop at the grocery store for some much needed items. When she got home we fed Jamesen, I gave him a bath and played with him in his room. Melissa read him a book on his floor (he won't sit still for me to read to him) and we both gave him kisses and hugs. We put his sound machine on, turned out the light and I laid him down in the crib. I though he was trying to get up so I RAN out of the room. I was fully prepared to hear him SCREAM! To my surprise he didn't make a peep... And still at 10 he hasn't cried out or woken up. I just can't believe it!
So.. does this make us bad parents? We have obviously been keeping our poor boy up at night. I feel so guilty... I didn't think he could do it. Well now I know and it feels like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
Wish us luck! We both feel like the other shoe is about to drop! This has been so easy so far.
He's still sleeping and quiet!! 10:07 PM...